"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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JustWuzzle

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I'm still hanging out with the girl I met on POF. She admited that she wanted to kiss me. She just told me to be confident and sure of myself. Great advice, we worked out today I lift weights and she just did the treadmill and bike. I also noticed what you guys would call IoI's. Like her missing with my hair and playing with me with a candy rapper. She's an awesome girl I'm getting no red flags at all :woo: . I'm gonna keep hanging out with her because I'm not nervous or anything around her.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Falcon25

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If you don't kiss her soon, you will be the girl that changes her tampon. Do something you fuvk. Make a move. She is begging for you to be a man. And all you want to do is "hang out" with her? Make a move.
 

Diaforetikos

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Falcon's words are truths.

Get off your d$mn computer, pull out your fvckin phone, call the girl, arrange to meet up, then make a d$mn move!! She even had to effin' tell you to man the fvck up!!

Your a godd$mn man!! Man up and take what's yours!
 

JustWuzzle

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Falcon25 said:
If you don't kiss her soon, you will be the girl that changes her tampon. Do something you fuvk. Make a move. She is begging for you to be a man. And all you want to do is "hang out" with her? Make a move.
I wanna make a move and fvck her but. I don't know how she feels about that. She does bible study and goes to church. I don't wanna mess that up and have her quit cause she likes me so much but i gotta make my move,soon.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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neghitzbrah

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Would you rather go through life without making a move and regret it? Or take your chances by making a move and know for sure? That's the way I go about it.
 

Deadly_Ripped

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Dude forget about banging it out... you haven't even kissed her yet! Start with kissing her and then think about that.
 

Maxtro

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JustWuzzle said:
I wanna make a move and fvck her but. I don't know how she feels about that.
She admited that she wanted to kiss me.
Dude, you answered your own question!

What the hell are you waiting for?!

I'm known for waiting too long to make moves on women. But damn dude, if a girl ever told me that she wanted to kiss me, I would kiss her!
 
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