"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Avoiding Rejection

MatureDJ

MatureDJ

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Glassguy said:
If MOST women are rejecting you, there is a problem.

I own a business. We both sell things and provide a service. People call all day asking about prices. I like to set my prices where I get 85-90% of those customers.

If I get less, there is a problem with either the price point or product for that price point. If I get 100%, my price point is to low and I can do better, so I simply increase the price points.

You should apply the same to dating. If you are getting rejected 90% of the time, you are either hitting up chicks way out of your league (consistently) or you need to do some serious work on yourself (frame, game, looks, social circles, etc).

On the flip side, if you are never getting rejected, its time to start hitting up hotter chicks.
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What if the "price point" for 90% success rate is 90 kg chicks? :mad:
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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