avoiding LJBF

[CaliGuyInLondon]

Okay so I met this girl. She's super cute, like really cute, but whatever, irrelevent I suppose. She's fun, smart and totally my type. She's a freshman at my University and in the major that I am like President of and stuff so she thinks I'm a big dog I believe. She was telling all her friends last night how Im the head honcho and whatever and she'd be like tell them!!!! and I'd say stuff like yeah im president of slacker club, just to rile her up a bit.

anyway, she's like a good christian girl, never has done more than make out and what not, which is cool with me, because im a good christian boy...most of the time. My question is, how do I make sure that I avoid the friendzone without sexualizing things and using stuff that might freak her out given her innocence?

 

[scrouds]

My question is, how do I make sure that I avoid the friendzone without sexualizing things and using stuff that might freak her out given her innocence?

You don't. You sexualize. You tease. You make her want you. You make her want to go against her moral fabric. You break her.

 

[CaliGuyInLondon]

ah i get it! thanks for that, seems so simple now that you say it, lol.

every other guy will play up to her christianity is what you're saying? but im not every other guy?

thank you sir. you are a gentleman and a scholar.

 

[Sir_Turtle]

agreed. moral character will not inspire attraction in a girl. Sexual,flirty, teasing behaiviour +looks inspires attraction. It's only after she's attracted to you that she will go to her list of moral characterisitcs that she needs meet before she starts a serious relationship with you. If your attraction is great enough she will ignore these logiclly desired qualities all together.

Just like you're going to find a hot girl attractive regardless of her moral fiber she will feel the same way about you because of a certian set of looks+behaiviours(sexually flirty ones). Granted you might never want a relationship with the hot chick lacking in morals, but you're still going to be attracted to her.

hope that helps.

 

[CaliGuyInLondon]

helps a ton! you guys really are great, thanks so much!