"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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CaliGuyInLondon

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Okay so I met this girl. She's super cute, like really cute, but whatever, irrelevent I suppose. She's fun, smart and totally my type. She's a freshman at my University and in the major that I am like President of and stuff so she thinks I'm a big dog I believe. She was telling all her friends last night how Im the head honcho and whatever and she'd be like tell them!!!! and I'd say stuff like yeah im president of slacker club, just to rile her up a bit.

anyway, she's like a good christian girl, never has done more than make out and what not, which is cool with me, because im a good christian boy...most of the time. My question is, how do I make sure that I avoid the friendzone without sexualizing things and using stuff that might freak her out given her innocence?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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My question is, how do I make sure that I avoid the friendzone without sexualizing things and using stuff that might freak her out given her innocence?
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You don't. You sexualize. You tease. You make her want you. You make her want to go against her moral fabric. You break her.
 
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ah i get it! thanks for that, seems so simple now that you say it, lol.

every other guy will play up to her christianity is what you're saying? but im not every other guy?

thank you sir. you are a gentleman and a scholar.
 
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agreed. moral character will not inspire attraction in a girl. Sexual,flirty, teasing behaiviour +looks inspires attraction. It's only after she's attracted to you that she will go to her list of moral characterisitcs that she needs meet before she starts a serious relationship with you. If your attraction is great enough she will ignore these logiclly desired qualities all together.

Just like you're going to find a hot girl attractive regardless of her moral fiber she will feel the same way about you because of a certian set of looks+behaiviours(sexually flirty ones). Granted you might never want a relationship with the hot chick lacking in morals, but you're still going to be attracted to her.

hope that helps.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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