"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Avoid women that do this...

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Who Dares Win

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As a general rule when I speak to a woman and she looks everywhere but me I take it as a sign of low interest.

When it happens usually the rest of the body is pointing somewhere else too, no eye contact and short brief answers means move away in my vocabulary.
 

darksprezzatura

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When you lock eyes with someone, the way they break contact shows a lot of things.

If they look downwards - usually signals submission

If they look upwards - they are showing you that you aren't worth their time, try hard idiots because they broke eye contact first anyway

If they break sidewards- indifferent
 

wifehunter

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Depends on the conversation content. ..she could be bored, shy, distracted, etc.

But, if she generally does not hold eye contact...could be disrepect...

time will tell.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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Why is this so? I don't see the correlation with eye contact anxiety and trustworthiness. I could look someone right in their eye and lie to their face, be it a random person on the streets or my own parents. I never do because maintaining a lie is annoying, but it's not hard. I don't see what the issue is.
 

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When you lock eyes with someone, the way they break contact shows a lot of things.

If they look downwards - usually signals submission

If they look upwards - they are showing you that you aren't worth their time, try hard idiots because they broke eye contact first anyway

If they break sidewards- indifferent
Can totally confirm and agree with this. Every girl who looks down after looking at you is practically submitting to you and that's beautiful. On the other hand, I guess one has to a bit naive not to understand that when someone looks up or to the side, it is probably "not interested sign". Spot on, @darksprezzatura
 

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That don't keep eye contact with you while having a conversation with you. They are generally not trustworthy. Not just women but men too.
Payaso gets six likes in a post. I must be a terrible person haha.
 
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