Georgepithyou
Banned
1. The process of meeting online, especially from a girl's POV, is very robotic, unromantic, and subconsciously "easily replaced". It has no special meaning. This does not bode well for a prospect future wife. Foundations are important. A chance meeting in-person always holds more value to the people involved. I personally have experienced this every time: in person there's a higher feeling of chemistry, excitement, and respect, from both sides. Both are simply more inclined to "continue" and put effort in, because there's more value to the relationship.
2. She will be less attracted to you at a base level. You are subconsciously displaying low value to her, no matter what logical reasoning we may try to apply to using dating apps. I believe that there is a small level of disrespect that is held for men using them. Again, from personal experience, most displays of extreme/overt attraction that I have experienced towards me have been women I've met randomly in person. Women from dating apps tend to have less respect towards you on average. The power balance is in their favour from the start. Also, how can you really spark a girl's feelings by presenting to her pixels on a screen? Women are less visual and rely more on a man's confidence, charisma, for attraction.
So, how to find something meaningful in person?
Go out, be social, meet people. Go to events, try new hobbies, go to meetups. Slowly build a social network. In 2021, by simply not being buried in our phones, we are already in the top 20%. If you're a foreigner then it is extremely easy to do this. Perhaps get in contact with "English speaking" groups and offer to show up. It's amazing what can happen by just going out and doing things. I'm slightly more introverted so I understand the difficulty, but it is better to accept the facts and just do it. Going with a friend fixes this problem a lot of the time.
2. She will be less attracted to you at a base level. You are subconsciously displaying low value to her, no matter what logical reasoning we may try to apply to using dating apps. I believe that there is a small level of disrespect that is held for men using them. Again, from personal experience, most displays of extreme/overt attraction that I have experienced towards me have been women I've met randomly in person. Women from dating apps tend to have less respect towards you on average. The power balance is in their favour from the start. Also, how can you really spark a girl's feelings by presenting to her pixels on a screen? Women are less visual and rely more on a man's confidence, charisma, for attraction.
So, how to find something meaningful in person?
Go out, be social, meet people. Go to events, try new hobbies, go to meetups. Slowly build a social network. In 2021, by simply not being buried in our phones, we are already in the top 20%. If you're a foreigner then it is extremely easy to do this. Perhaps get in contact with "English speaking" groups and offer to show up. It's amazing what can happen by just going out and doing things. I'm slightly more introverted so I understand the difficulty, but it is better to accept the facts and just do it. Going with a friend fixes this problem a lot of the time.
