"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Avoid clubs and bars

skinnyguy

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Pardner said:
If you're good with women you can pick them up anywhere. Bars and clubs are an easy place to do that. Guys who suck with women can't pick them up anywhere.
lol, pretty harsh but true.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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PrettyBoyAJ

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Clubs are only good for two reasons:

1. Meeting and screwing women.
2. Getting attention.

That's why for me when I'm in a relationship I avoid it. When I'm single however I love the attention and love screwing different women. It did get played out though when I was single. Same thing everytime, just a different day. Majority of the girls aren't relationship material and most girls are straight up h0's.
 

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Yes and no. Your investment (your time and money) will not match what you get - ie sex. Many times you will go home with NOTHING. This is the reality. Now as a young 20 something year old bars/clubs are, outside of college, where you will encounter so many hot girls at one time in one place. So I do understand why guys would suggest those places - all I would say is go in expecting to have a GOOD TIME, not to hook up. If your aim is to hook up and you are just your average Joe, you are bound to be disapointed very quickly - you're not going grocery shopping - you don't just walk in and pick the girl off the shelf at your convenience lol.
 

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Clubs are full of people trying way too hard. The expense is way out there too.
There are better options out there no question and way more affordable
 
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