lol, pretty harsh but true.Pardner said:If you're good with women you can pick them up anywhere. Bars and clubs are an easy place to do that. Guys who suck with women can't pick them up anywhere.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.