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I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Average no. of Dates to f*ck close

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hey guys.

okay, been meaning to ask this for a while: in your experience and/or knowledge, what is the average number of dates (average in every sense: average girl, average guy, average IL, etc.) before a f*ck close?

Here, date means any time spent together after the initial meeting: could be dinner+movie, time spent at yours/her place, etc.

EDIT: This does NOT include one night stands, only girls whom you have or would be willing to wait longer than one night for.

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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My record was 2 hours upon meeting her.

Usually, I think I can do it on the second date on a girl with high IL.

Depends though. But when you reach 4-6 dates with little progress I'd next her.
 
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wouldn't this whole thing be skewed by your number of ONS? I can't speak for everybody here but I know the bulk of my sex comes from girls who I won't be seeing very often even less dating. If you're looking for an average that'll bring the number down significantly.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Ok, now that it has been edited it would take me 2-5 dates usually. that would average to 3-4 or 3.5 dates I guess?

this is based on a girl with equal or higher value to me. :)
 
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