Mike32ct
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AriMamba said:
Boner = erection <American slang>
Boner test = Is she attractive enough where you could get an erection and be physically capable of F-ing her?
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Average looking women who are a huge turn on.
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Boner = erection <American slang>
Boner test = Is she attractive enough where you could get an erection and be physically capable of F-ing her?
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
starfishandcoffee
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What does voice have to do with anything? I noticed that a woman's voice (a particular type) can really get me going.
bukowski_merit
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There's no doubt that women with more "womanly" voice (think Disney cartoon princesses), are more feminine.... Their voice (in a brutally slimmed down scientific explanation) sounds like that because they lack testosterone. Which is exactly what makes them more feminine/passive/submissive.starfishandcoffee said:
Uncharted
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There's a woman I work with that sounds like a phone sex operator when you talk to her on the phone. She's not even hot.starfishandcoffee said:
Zekko, that's exactly what I mean.zekko said:
Look, I have the hots for a 10 like any other guy and average
looking women have redeeming qualities I'm willing to look over.
I've had many LTRs with average women.
This girl is VERY average....yet I'm turned on as if she IS a 10.
Every time I see her, I want to tear off her clothes and go to town and
I'm getting the signals she'd be all for it if she wasn't married.
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.
PapiChulo
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average is sexy because it is attainable. That's all to it.
zekko
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If that were all it was, then every average woman would be sexy.PapiChulo said:
What's going on is that some women have something about them that pushes your buttons, even if they might not be considered classic beauties. It's chemistry or something. I'm surprised more guys here haven't experienced this.
To clarify, these women aren't ugly, so don't mistake that. I'm thinking he's probably talking about maybe a 6.
I'm wondering if this is something akin to what average guys who are successful at pickup achieve. "He's not that good looking, but there's something about him that's really sexy....". Some sort of animal magnetism, that sort of thing.
Doesn't sound strange to me at all: you can often make a good guess at what she'll be like in bed just from the way she carries herself. If she looks like she's probably the type to grudgingly blow you and then just lay there like a dead fish then it doesn't matter how to me hot she is. If she's lively and energetic in her everyday then she's probably just as so on the mattress.bukowski_merit said:
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.