"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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AUSTRALIAN Bootcamp!

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Hi everyone,

Its about time I got my act together and started this. I've been having some discussions with a friend, and have realised how miserable I am.

I'm 23, live in Sydney, never had a girlfriend, never even been on a proper date. Lately I've noticed that I just go through the same routine, see the same lame friends for the same lame activities (computer and TV/movie related), and talk about the same lame nerdy subjects.

So, I've been through the DJBible, and am starting to realise that I've got to start seeing less of my friends and push myself outside my comfort zone.

I'm calling on anyone else here willing to start a bootcamp. I want to do this over the Christmas period where its not busy at work, and everyone's in a good mood. If anyone is willing to meet up in person, I think that'll do wonders for my (our) commitment to changing, and help ensure our success that little bit more.

Please post back here by Wednesday 2nd Dec for a Thursday start.

NAI.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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heaps of sexy asian girls everywhere man

i'm even more motivated to get this bootcamp on. i went out with a couple of mates yesterday and met some of his friends and their friends. i developed a thing for this very sexy asian girl, found her a little isolated and tried to work some charm, but she dropped the "she's got a boyfriend" line.

i didn't react, just kept flirting, trying to have a good time (i even tried applying some kino, go me!) and she was receptive. then as she was heading off, she came over to where i was standing to say goodbye, and for a good 20 secs just stood there waiting for me to ask for her number i guess, but like a chick **** i froze up and did nothing.

great girl, great personality, and i f**ked it up


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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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