"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Hi everyone,

Its about time I got my act together and started this. I've been having some discussions with a friend, and have realised how miserable I am.

I'm 23, live in Sydney, never had a girlfriend, never even been on a proper date. Lately I've noticed that I just go through the same routine, see the same lame friends for the same lame activities (computer and TV/movie related), and talk about the same lame nerdy subjects.

So, I've been through the DJBible, and am starting to realise that I've got to start seeing less of my friends and push myself outside my comfort zone.

I'm calling on anyone else here willing to start a bootcamp. I want to do this over the Christmas period where its not busy at work, and everyone's in a good mood. If anyone is willing to meet up in person, I think that'll do wonders for my (our) commitment to changing, and help ensure our success that little bit more.

Please post back here by Wednesday 2nd Dec for a Thursday start.

NAI.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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heaps of sexy asian girls everywhere man

i'm even more motivated to get this bootcamp on. i went out with a couple of mates yesterday and met some of his friends and their friends. i developed a thing for this very sexy asian girl, found her a little isolated and tried to work some charm, but she dropped the "she's got a boyfriend" line.

i didn't react, just kept flirting, trying to have a good time (i even tried applying some kino, go me!) and she was receptive. then as she was heading off, she came over to where i was standing to say goodbye, and for a good 20 secs just stood there waiting for me to ask for her number i guess, but like a chick **** i froze up and did nothing.

great girl, great personality, and i f**ked it up


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"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

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