"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Hi everyone,

Its about time I got my act together and started this. I've been having some discussions with a friend, and have realised how miserable I am.

I'm 23, live in Sydney, never had a girlfriend, never even been on a proper date. Lately I've noticed that I just go through the same routine, see the same lame friends for the same lame activities (computer and TV/movie related), and talk about the same lame nerdy subjects.

So, I've been through the DJBible, and am starting to realise that I've got to start seeing less of my friends and push myself outside my comfort zone.

I'm calling on anyone else here willing to start a bootcamp. I want to do this over the Christmas period where its not busy at work, and everyone's in a good mood. If anyone is willing to meet up in person, I think that'll do wonders for my (our) commitment to changing, and help ensure our success that little bit more.

Please post back here by Wednesday 2nd Dec for a Thursday start.

NAI.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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heaps of sexy asian girls everywhere man

i'm even more motivated to get this bootcamp on. i went out with a couple of mates yesterday and met some of his friends and their friends. i developed a thing for this very sexy asian girl, found her a little isolated and tried to work some charm, but she dropped the "she's got a boyfriend" line.

i didn't react, just kept flirting, trying to have a good time (i even tried applying some kino, go me!) and she was receptive. then as she was heading off, she came over to where i was standing to say goodbye, and for a good 20 secs just stood there waiting for me to ask for her number i guess, but like a chick **** i froze up and did nothing.

great girl, great personality, and i f**ked it up


and yes, this is another bump
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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