cant think of a user name
Master Don Juan
Whoa, wasnt aware there were so many people from Melbourne in here.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Australia- Melbourne
- Thread starter felony
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mastervampire
Don Juan
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im from melb
IrReSiStIbLe
Senior Don Juan
Yeh, thur night sounds good... cant spend too much though...
IrReSiStIbLe
Senior Don Juan
Ok Dudes, this Thursday night I'm going to 'The Hawthorn' at Hawthorn on Burwood rd with a group of girls (approx 5) and some mates... going coz im dying to meet up with this HB9.5 i was with...so thursday night i'll be going to the Hawthorn and would be great if you'd like to meet up...so message ASAP to arrange stuff (thats if your up for the challenge 
) coz we've been talking and talking but nothing's been happening...
Cheers,
Irresistible.
) coz we've been talking and talking but nothing's been happening...Cheers,
Irresistible.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Donjuanpablo
Master Don Juan
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Bahh, I didnt see this until today, I probably would have gone, was at the skinny dog and then room that night. Should try again sometime though fellas.Originally posted by IrReSiStIbLe
Ok Dudes, this Thursday night I'm going to 'The Hawthorn' at Hawthorn on Burwood rd with a group of girls (approx 5) and some mates... going coz im dying to meet up with this HB9.5 i was with...so thursday night i'll be going to the Hawthorn and would be great if you'd like to meet up...so message ASAP to arrange stuff (thats if your up for the challenge
Cheers,
Irresistible.
IrReSiStIbLe
Senior Don Juan
Yeh, well you guys can organise something and i'll be there... whateva you want, im on role lately...
Waiting for your responses,
IrReSiStIbLe.
Waiting for your responses,
IrReSiStIbLe.
IrReSiStIbLe
Senior Don Juan
Yoe, how about Saturday the 1st of Nov. 9pm, 'room' or 'frostbotes' just to get to know eachother and practice our sarging... I'll PM my mob to you guys later on and yas can msg me or whateva...
ciao
ciao
Hey bro,
This say nite i'm working but afterwards (around 11ish) I'm goin out to catch up wit a few mates and a few chicks who are having bdays or something just general pub/ club stuff down on toorak rd.
I don't think i'll be able to make it to anywhere else that night but who knows. Give me ur PM mobs or whatever maybe we can hook it up.
I've got exams the next few weeks, so after mid november i'll be more than ready to have mad nights out! It's soo good how u can be away from the nightlife for a week, come back and your **** is so tight its unbelieveable
Take care bro,
f.
Hey baby, you free tonight? Or is it going to cost me?
This say nite i'm working but afterwards (around 11ish) I'm goin out to catch up wit a few mates and a few chicks who are having bdays or something just general pub/ club stuff down on toorak rd.
I don't think i'll be able to make it to anywhere else that night but who knows. Give me ur PM mobs or whatever maybe we can hook it up.
I've got exams the next few weeks, so after mid november i'll be more than ready to have mad nights out! It's soo good how u can be away from the nightlife for a week, come back and your **** is so tight its unbelieveable
Take care bro,
f.
Hey baby, you free tonight? Or is it going to cost me?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
i finish exams next week, after that i'm gonna have some huge night outs.
either we will organise official nights or just let each other know where we are at with our mates and hoes lol and anyone can rock up.
Either way, irresistable and my self are keen.
cheers,
felony.
either we will organise official nights or just let each other know where we are at with our mates and hoes lol and anyone can rock up.
Either way, irresistable and my self are keen.
cheers,
felony.
duke007
Master Don Juan
hey guys, sorry i went missing from this thread. i've been busy with exams and Uni as well.
I'm finished on the 17th of November, and I'm definitely willing to go out some time that week. I think we should organise a date in advance so there are no excuses for not showing up...
I'm finished on the 17th of November, and I'm definitely willing to go out some time that week. I think we should organise a date in advance so there are no excuses for not showing up...
IrReSiStIbLe
Senior Don Juan
Ok, how about we meet up once a week... I finish exams on the 11th so I personally dont mind.. Whenever you guys want... Let's confirm everything once ya'll finish exams... so far, this is the scenario:
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Me: Up for it
felony: Up for it
duke007: up for it
Exile: Up for it
xxxgunz: Up for it
donjuanpublo: Unknown
mastervampire: Unknown
cant think of a user name: Unknown
Ar7: Unknown
Nameless: Unknown
Cheatz: Unknown
Gungnir: Unknown
Sebba: Unknown
Fvvvck.... so many people from Melbourne ey ...
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Me: Up for it
felony: Up for it
duke007: up for it
Exile: Up for it
xxxgunz: Up for it
donjuanpublo: Unknown
mastervampire: Unknown
cant think of a user name: Unknown
Ar7: Unknown
Nameless: Unknown
Cheatz: Unknown
Gungnir: Unknown
Sebba: Unknown
Fvvvck.... so many people from Melbourne ey
..."The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
duke007
Master Don Juan
once a week sounds nice. just pick a day and a venue then
dman this is going to be one busy month. I'm arranging to go out with 4 different groups of people!
dman this is going to be one busy month. I'm arranging to go out with 4 different groups of people!
j_kat_251
Don Juan
I'm in the south eastern suburbs if anyone wants to PM me for some kind of outing.
Cheatz
Senior Don Juan
I will be going europe for 2 months so I guess i'll miss some meets in melbourne, if any
I'm from SE suburbs too.
I'm from SE suburbs too.
IrReSiStIbLe
Senior Don Juan
Alright, it seems like most people here finish their exams on the 17th, which is a monday... How about 'Room' on Tuesday the 18th? Lets organise somethin...
IrReSiStIbLe
Senior Don Juan
Sup DJ's,
Please respond to this message so that we could know whose coming and whose not. Let's meet up at like 8pm so that we could get to know eachother better, prefferably cheers or casey's as the chicks flow at these places on Tuesdays...
Cheers,
Irresistible.
P.S
So far, me, felony and duke007 are definately up for it, so PM either of us to confirm.
Please respond to this message so that we could know whose coming and whose not. Let's meet up at like 8pm so that we could get to know eachother better, prefferably cheers or casey's as the chicks flow at these places on Tuesdays...
Cheers,
Irresistible.
P.S
So far, me, felony and duke007 are definately up for it, so PM either of us to confirm.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.