cant think of a user name
Master Don Juan
Whoa, wasnt aware there were so many people from Melbourne in here.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
Australia- Melbourne
- Thread starter felony
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
mastervampire
Don Juan
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im from melb
IrReSiStIbLe
Senior Don Juan
Yeh, thur night sounds good... cant spend too much though...
IrReSiStIbLe
Senior Don Juan
Ok Dudes, this Thursday night I'm going to 'The Hawthorn' at Hawthorn on Burwood rd with a group of girls (approx 5) and some mates... going coz im dying to meet up with this HB9.5 i was with...so thursday night i'll be going to the Hawthorn and would be great if you'd like to meet up...so message ASAP to arrange stuff (thats if your up for the challenge 
) coz we've been talking and talking but nothing's been happening...
Cheers,
Irresistible.
) coz we've been talking and talking but nothing's been happening...Cheers,
Irresistible.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Donjuanpablo
Master Don Juan
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Bahh, I didnt see this until today, I probably would have gone, was at the skinny dog and then room that night. Should try again sometime though fellas.Originally posted by IrReSiStIbLe
Ok Dudes, this Thursday night I'm going to 'The Hawthorn' at Hawthorn on Burwood rd with a group of girls (approx 5) and some mates... going coz im dying to meet up with this HB9.5 i was with...so thursday night i'll be going to the Hawthorn and would be great if you'd like to meet up...so message ASAP to arrange stuff (thats if your up for the challenge
Cheers,
Irresistible.
IrReSiStIbLe
Senior Don Juan
Yeh, well you guys can organise something and i'll be there... whateva you want, im on role lately...
Waiting for your responses,
IrReSiStIbLe.
Waiting for your responses,
IrReSiStIbLe.
IrReSiStIbLe
Senior Don Juan
Yoe, how about Saturday the 1st of Nov. 9pm, 'room' or 'frostbotes' just to get to know eachother and practice our sarging... I'll PM my mob to you guys later on and yas can msg me or whateva...
ciao
ciao
Hey bro,
This say nite i'm working but afterwards (around 11ish) I'm goin out to catch up wit a few mates and a few chicks who are having bdays or something just general pub/ club stuff down on toorak rd.
I don't think i'll be able to make it to anywhere else that night but who knows. Give me ur PM mobs or whatever maybe we can hook it up.
I've got exams the next few weeks, so after mid november i'll be more than ready to have mad nights out! It's soo good how u can be away from the nightlife for a week, come back and your **** is so tight its unbelieveable
Take care bro,
f.
Hey baby, you free tonight? Or is it going to cost me?
This say nite i'm working but afterwards (around 11ish) I'm goin out to catch up wit a few mates and a few chicks who are having bdays or something just general pub/ club stuff down on toorak rd.
I don't think i'll be able to make it to anywhere else that night but who knows. Give me ur PM mobs or whatever maybe we can hook it up.
I've got exams the next few weeks, so after mid november i'll be more than ready to have mad nights out! It's soo good how u can be away from the nightlife for a week, come back and your **** is so tight its unbelieveable
Take care bro,
f.
Hey baby, you free tonight? Or is it going to cost me?
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
i finish exams next week, after that i'm gonna have some huge night outs.
either we will organise official nights or just let each other know where we are at with our mates and hoes lol and anyone can rock up.
Either way, irresistable and my self are keen.
cheers,
felony.
either we will organise official nights or just let each other know where we are at with our mates and hoes lol and anyone can rock up.
Either way, irresistable and my self are keen.
cheers,
felony.
duke007
Master Don Juan
hey guys, sorry i went missing from this thread. i've been busy with exams and Uni as well.
I'm finished on the 17th of November, and I'm definitely willing to go out some time that week. I think we should organise a date in advance so there are no excuses for not showing up...
I'm finished on the 17th of November, and I'm definitely willing to go out some time that week. I think we should organise a date in advance so there are no excuses for not showing up...
IrReSiStIbLe
Senior Don Juan
Ok, how about we meet up once a week... I finish exams on the 11th so I personally dont mind.. Whenever you guys want... Let's confirm everything once ya'll finish exams... so far, this is the scenario:
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Me: Up for it
felony: Up for it
duke007: up for it
Exile: Up for it
xxxgunz: Up for it
donjuanpublo: Unknown
mastervampire: Unknown
cant think of a user name: Unknown
Ar7: Unknown
Nameless: Unknown
Cheatz: Unknown
Gungnir: Unknown
Sebba: Unknown
Fvvvck.... so many people from Melbourne ey ...
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Me: Up for it
felony: Up for it
duke007: up for it
Exile: Up for it
xxxgunz: Up for it
donjuanpublo: Unknown
mastervampire: Unknown
cant think of a user name: Unknown
Ar7: Unknown
Nameless: Unknown
Cheatz: Unknown
Gungnir: Unknown
Sebba: Unknown
Fvvvck.... so many people from Melbourne ey
..."I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
duke007
Master Don Juan
once a week sounds nice. just pick a day and a venue then
dman this is going to be one busy month. I'm arranging to go out with 4 different groups of people!
dman this is going to be one busy month. I'm arranging to go out with 4 different groups of people!
j_kat_251
Don Juan
I'm in the south eastern suburbs if anyone wants to PM me for some kind of outing.
Cheatz
Senior Don Juan
I will be going europe for 2 months so I guess i'll miss some meets in melbourne, if any
I'm from SE suburbs too.
I'm from SE suburbs too.
IrReSiStIbLe
Senior Don Juan
Alright, it seems like most people here finish their exams on the 17th, which is a monday... How about 'Room' on Tuesday the 18th? Lets organise somethin...
IrReSiStIbLe
Senior Don Juan
Sup DJ's,
Please respond to this message so that we could know whose coming and whose not. Let's meet up at like 8pm so that we could get to know eachother better, prefferably cheers or casey's as the chicks flow at these places on Tuesdays...
Cheers,
Irresistible.
P.S
So far, me, felony and duke007 are definately up for it, so PM either of us to confirm.
Please respond to this message so that we could know whose coming and whose not. Let's meet up at like 8pm so that we could get to know eachother better, prefferably cheers or casey's as the chicks flow at these places on Tuesdays...
Cheers,
Irresistible.
P.S
So far, me, felony and duke007 are definately up for it, so PM either of us to confirm.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.