"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Re: Sweet mate

Yeah been to frostbites once or twice before, nice place.

I mostly go for asian chicks, thus end up at asian places all the time. Been to many non asian places as I have multicultural friends, but never tried pick up in non asian places for some reason (maybe this is where I ll learn something new from u guys ;)). However I am down with anything, so yeah I m down for Frostbites.

And yeah I am also saving up currently to buy a bike (can hardly wait :D) so yeah. Maybe when I get my next pay, something like in the next 2 weeks time?
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Nameless here, another Melbourne head.

Extremely busy for the next 3-4weeks....

Possibly could do something before then but it will be hard...


185cm (ft?)
20yo
prefers quiet chicks which arent your typical slvts,
I to prefer cold daytime pick-ups as I dont generally like clubs at all.
Unless its Laundry Monday Nights Johnston St. Fitzroy.
 
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So anyonelse down for it, come on m8 its gonna ge great fun :)
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Originally posted by Nameless

Unless its Laundry Monday Nights Johnston St. Fitzroy.
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I think I been there once, its upstairs right? And I can't rememba what night it was but, they were playing some jungle music.
 
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Not saying that I despise clubs, just generally dont like them for the following reasons:

1) Play music I dont like/hate (even though thats not the real reason we'd be going hey? ;) )

2) I like to DJ via conversations and like to hear what a HB actually has to say - Clubs are usually too noisy for that.

3) Usually full of hormone blinded, desperate AFC's.

- I can work around these things, although I dont like to really work in these environments.
Usually prefer lounges where people can sit and chill.

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Yeah, Laundy is down and upstairs.
Reason I like Laundry Mon (only) nights?

Hip-Hop night (not commercial) where I get to breakdance and chill.
 
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Sup bros,

frostbites sounds sweet in a fortnight, in fact i was there earlier this week, absolutely crazy ass night picked up some crazy american chick who was heaps of fun and kept me thoroughly entertained all nite wink wink. lol.

Yeah been to the laundry... i went on a quiet night tho so i'm not sure what's its like when its really pumping. I turned up there on one of those awesome fun nights where you just go to half a dozen or so places in one night with a bunch of mates.

Yep, i'm on my way to the MelbUni Com ball this thursday night. Give me a buzz or whatever and we'll catch up if ur gonna be there. i can't wait... so many many many chicks... i'm gonna have a mad time meeting so many new people!!!

Take it easy, looking forward to the day we can post a field report of a crazy night out wit some melb djs.

Cheers,
felony.
 
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Sounds good, frostbites it is then, hav fun at the ball felony, g luck with the gals there, make us proud m8 ;)
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Just wondering, do any of you guys go to either La Trobe Uni Bnd. or RMIT City?

No other details needed in public on this board.... just curious.
 
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Damn, is everybody in Melbourne? I got to move to Australia right now!:cool:
 
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I wish I was in brazil dude, I hear they have quite a party scene there, and the booties are hot hot hot 24 hours a day.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Woah crap :O where the hell did this thread pop out from :confused: ... I created a new one for nothing now cause it seemed that this got deleted.
 
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Originally posted by IrReSiStIbLe
Yo, whats happenin? u guys still alive...???
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Yeah dude, i couldn't log in last week.
I guess we missed it, lets organise something soon
 
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oi boyz, going to seven on thursday night (next thursday, cant this thursday coz im broke...!) tell me if u wanna come and i'll put u on the guestlist(and instead of 12$ u'll only have to pay 5)... sweet...?:D Next sat im going to some uni house party (invite only:() so i wont be able to catch up with u guys... if uve got other plans for thursday tell me... if u want something free yet not as good as seven such as frostbites or hawthorn up to you guys..;)..
Speak soon mates,
dOn IrReSiStIbLe.:cool:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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