"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Aura of Confidence

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Master Don Juan
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I can most definitely say that I shine a fvcking awesome DJ aura of confidence when I am around chicks.

There's tons of reasons I am basing this on and they are mostly related to the fact people blatantly bring it up.

Take tonight for example. I'm sitting at my place backing some beers with my brother and a few of his friends. One of his friends had a sister. Prolly a 8.5. Cute girl. Well this drunk kid has to point out eventually after an hour or so hanging out that this girl wants me to be her man. She has a b/f and I respected that so I wasn't even trying to pick her up. There are plenty of girls to go around. Evidence definitely lead that I was purely a hit with this chick though.

One of the many situations that being a DJ has allowed me to experience.

It probably helped that a few of the kids pointed out I was truly an alpha male with a few of their comments and made me out to be good with girlies.

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"If you do something, you'll reap rewards."

"You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face" -Eleanor Roosevelt
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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