"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Aura of Confidence

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Master Don Juan
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I can most definitely say that I shine a fvcking awesome DJ aura of confidence when I am around chicks.

There's tons of reasons I am basing this on and they are mostly related to the fact people blatantly bring it up.

Take tonight for example. I'm sitting at my place backing some beers with my brother and a few of his friends. One of his friends had a sister. Prolly a 8.5. Cute girl. Well this drunk kid has to point out eventually after an hour or so hanging out that this girl wants me to be her man. She has a b/f and I respected that so I wasn't even trying to pick her up. There are plenty of girls to go around. Evidence definitely lead that I was purely a hit with this chick though.

One of the many situations that being a DJ has allowed me to experience.

It probably helped that a few of the kids pointed out I was truly an alpha male with a few of their comments and made me out to be good with girlies.

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"If you do something, you'll reap rewards."

"You gain strength, courage and confidence by every experience in which you really stop to look fear in the face" -Eleanor Roosevelt
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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