It seems like attractiveness should make things easier but in my case it has not. I have been told many times by many people that I am very attractive and yet I don't have good success with women. When I go out it seems like virtually none show any interest right off the bat. It's just weird having been told that I'm attractive and yet there seems to be no interest. Wouldn't it be normal for women to pay more attention to you if you really are attractive?
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no, that only happens in movies.labyrinth said:I agree that most often approaching will be necessary and that most women won't do it. But it seems like I would notice more signs of interest and that they would at least smile or give some kind of body language clue?
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I don’t know. I get women giving me clues all the time. Lots of smiles, but then I do smile a lot myself and it tends to be contagious. Mostly though women do expect the man to make the first move.
I hear guys all the time with the complaint that they are attractive but girls aren’t going for them. Sometimes I wonder who is telling them that they are attractive, like their grandmother. Being attractive is more than just having a handsome face. It also takes an athletic body, a confident walk, appropriate mannerisms, the ability to look another in the eye without flinching, and control over one’s smile and eyes and all that.
I’m good looking enough that I know there have been women who were greatly attracted to me but never showed any signs out of fear of rejection and embarrassment. Typically if I approach a woman and look in her eyes I can tell if she is attracted or not. Once I start talking to her, the attraction will be obvious in her reaction and the things she’ll say.
Most women have greater approach anxiety than men do.
I hear guys all the time with the complaint that they are attractive but girls aren’t going for them. Sometimes I wonder who is telling them that they are attractive, like their grandmother. Being attractive is more than just having a handsome face. It also takes an athletic body, a confident walk, appropriate mannerisms, the ability to look another in the eye without flinching, and control over one’s smile and eyes and all that.
I’m good looking enough that I know there have been women who were greatly attracted to me but never showed any signs out of fear of rejection and embarrassment. Typically if I approach a woman and look in her eyes I can tell if she is attracted or not. Once I start talking to her, the attraction will be obvious in her reaction and the things she’ll say.
Most women have greater approach anxiety than men do.