sevbucmash
Master Don Juan
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Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
The graph says otherwise.No tattoos is more attractive.
Not how you interpret this graph.
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
And you are 32yo. You need to post more on how you do this. Amazing.respectfully disagree. i'm covered in tattoos. and my roster includes 3 hot 18 year old sorority girls (none of them have tats). one of which i took her virginity a couple weeks ago. they’re one of the things each of them has mentioned was what attracted them.
Yes, but it seems interesting/weird that while having no tattoos is better than any tattoos, having moderate tattoos is more attractive than having minimal tattoos.But you must see that slight bump is less than no tattoos.
I think he mentioned in the past that he lives in a college town and goes to college there.And you are 32yo. You need to post more on how you do this. Amazing.
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Yeah. The main bar I go to on weekends is filled with only 18-24 year old college girls. Because I'm 30, the first couple times I went the door guy would look at my ID and then be like, "students only". But I'm a student at the local community college here, so they let me in.
Access.
Girl I'm seeing is 24. I told her about a week ago that I was 30 after at first avoiding the question (she assumed I was 22. As do most girls around this age). If you look good (face, haircut, physique and clothes wise), there shouldn't be any issues.
thanks. as @Clockwerk50 mentioned i live in a college town. but no longer in school. the reason im able to do this is because i did my research on where these sorority girls like to go. they mostly stick to frat parties. which i don’t have access for to. but i will catch them on the occasion some of them decide to go to one of the bars i know them to frequent. however knowing where they go won’t help if you don’t look very appealing to them lookswise. so i spent a lot of time also researching how to make myself look like their fantasy type of guy. because knowing sorority girls they care a lot about their reputation and who you are. what frat you go to etc etc. so if your above a certain level in terms of looks your able to skip all that. and either sleep with them there and then. or get their number and invite them to your place some other night.And you are 32yo. You need to post more on how you do this. Amazing.
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.