"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Attractiveness of tattoos

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No tattoos is more attractive.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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But you must see that slight bump is less than no tattoos.
 

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respectfully disagree. i'm covered in tattoos. and my roster includes 3 hot 18 year old sorority girls (none of them have tats). one of which i took her virginity a couple weeks ago. they’re one of the things each of them has mentioned was what attracted them.
 

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No tattoos is more attractive.
Not how you interpret this graph.

The graph ultimately says: The number of tattoos you have, has negligible effect on whether women find you attractive or not.
It does not matter how many tattoos you have.


That's the only visible interpretation. There are no error bars, the vertical axis is unlabeled. There's no source of research.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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No tattoos means your taste of women is pure and you’re morally at a great state of mind when it comes to selecting a mate. If she has a tattoo on her ankle, that’s one thing, but having a bald head like a skin head with tattoos all over would raise some red flags lol
 

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respectfully disagree. i'm covered in tattoos. and my roster includes 3 hot 18 year old sorority girls (none of them have tats). one of which i took her virginity a couple weeks ago. they’re one of the things each of them has mentioned was what attracted them.
And you are 32yo. You need to post more on how you do this. Amazing.
 

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But you must see that slight bump is less than no tattoos.
Yes, but it seems interesting/weird that while having no tattoos is better than any tattoos, having moderate tattoos is more attractive than having minimal tattoos.

I wonder why that is...
 

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And you are 32yo. You need to post more on how you do this. Amazing.
I think he mentioned in the past that he lives in a college town and goes to college there.


Yeah. The main bar I go to on weekends is filled with only 18-24 year old college girls. Because I'm 30, the first couple times I went the door guy would look at my ID and then be like, "students only". But I'm a student at the local community college here, so they let me in.

Access.

Girl I'm seeing is 24. I told her about a week ago that I was 30 after at first avoiding the question (she assumed I was 22. As do most girls around this age). If you look good (face, haircut, physique and clothes wise), there shouldn't be any issues.
 

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And you are 32yo. You need to post more on how you do this. Amazing.
thanks. as @Clockwerk50 mentioned i live in a college town. but no longer in school. the reason im able to do this is because i did my research on where these sorority girls like to go. they mostly stick to frat parties. which i don’t have access for to. but i will catch them on the occasion some of them decide to go to one of the bars i know them to frequent. however knowing where they go won’t help if you don’t look very appealing to them lookswise. so i spent a lot of time also researching how to make myself look like their fantasy type of guy. because knowing sorority girls they care a lot about their reputation and who you are. what frat you go to etc etc. so if your above a certain level in terms of looks your able to skip all that. and either sleep with them there and then. or get their number and invite them to your place some other night.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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