sevbucmash
Master Don Juan
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
The graph says otherwise.No tattoos is more attractive.
Not how you interpret this graph.
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
And you are 32yo. You need to post more on how you do this. Amazing.respectfully disagree. i'm covered in tattoos. and my roster includes 3 hot 18 year old sorority girls (none of them have tats). one of which i took her virginity a couple weeks ago. they’re one of the things each of them has mentioned was what attracted them.
Yes, but it seems interesting/weird that while having no tattoos is better than any tattoos, having moderate tattoos is more attractive than having minimal tattoos.But you must see that slight bump is less than no tattoos.
I think he mentioned in the past that he lives in a college town and goes to college there.And you are 32yo. You need to post more on how you do this. Amazing.
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Yeah. The main bar I go to on weekends is filled with only 18-24 year old college girls. Because I'm 30, the first couple times I went the door guy would look at my ID and then be like, "students only". But I'm a student at the local community college here, so they let me in.
Access.
Girl I'm seeing is 24. I told her about a week ago that I was 30 after at first avoiding the question (she assumed I was 22. As do most girls around this age). If you look good (face, haircut, physique and clothes wise), there shouldn't be any issues.
thanks. as @Clockwerk50 mentioned i live in a college town. but no longer in school. the reason im able to do this is because i did my research on where these sorority girls like to go. they mostly stick to frat parties. which i don’t have access for to. but i will catch them on the occasion some of them decide to go to one of the bars i know them to frequent. however knowing where they go won’t help if you don’t look very appealing to them lookswise. so i spent a lot of time also researching how to make myself look like their fantasy type of guy. because knowing sorority girls they care a lot about their reputation and who you are. what frat you go to etc etc. so if your above a certain level in terms of looks your able to skip all that. and either sleep with them there and then. or get their number and invite them to your place some other night.And you are 32yo. You need to post more on how you do this. Amazing.
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.