attractive voice

[thebiglimp]

i'm beginning to see a pattern with my failures. it's my voice.

aside from my in-person rejections that i have listed so painstakingly on this forum, i had 2 tinder failures recently including last night.

so these girls who want to hook up, wants to first hear my voice on the phone. after that, their interest lvl drops to zero. one simply stopped talking, the other one only gives one word replies. we exchanged bunch of pictures prior so voice is all it narrow down to. (no nudie shots, mind you)

as the saying goes men feel what they see, women what they hear, i think i'm coming across as something repulsive whenever i open my mouth. i have a very downtrodden tone and my voice isn't even attractive to begin with. anybody had to cope with issue like mine? is this such a deal breaker and can it be fixed?

 

[salinechow]

I guess we would need to hear it honestly. Try and figure out a way. Soundcloud maybe? You could email me a file perhaps?

I would say though, unless is is very very extreme, its probably your game, not your voice. We can work on that too. LMK.

 

[Comatozed]

I don't know if my voice is attractive, I hadn't really considered it. I think I tend to talk a bit deeper when on a date though.

 

[Mike32ct]

Whatever your voice is, just OWN it. Guys with many different sounding voices can do well with women.

Please don't do the PUA tryhard "force your voice to have more bass" thing. It sounds like someone is speaking a quarter inch from a microphone lol.

 

[YAboi]

If you have a downtrodden voice then make it uptrodden by calibrating it to sound clear and at least satisfied with life as opposed to depressed.

 

[Bokanovsky]

If Eddie Murphy can get laid despite his voice, so can you.

 

[thebiglimp]

yeah, this girl was asking me to come over then sent me a voice text 'does it really take an hour to get here?'. my short reply 'i was thinking of traffic but it's still a bit of distance'

after that her interest level= 0.1

i mean how bad did i have to sound to fk that up so quickly? lol

 

[djthiago1]

We need a sound sample to judge.

 

[Atom Smasher]

There should be tons of resources on the web to teach a man how to modulate his voice. I've come across many in my wanderings.

Avail yourself of Google and you'll be able to get it handled.

 

[thebiglimp]

yeh i found some here too right after making this thread. the place is a gold mine and i'm now a digger.

 

[Vulpine]

Señor Fingers: Empower Your Voice

^^Boom-Ticka-Bap-Ticka-Ticka-Boom-Bap-Ticka, and whatnot.^^