"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Attractive looking people stick together?
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
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Who is that by the way?ChrizZ said:
No, he looked worse than that.
I want to live and die happy, I want to be able to say with my last breath that I loved my life, and I had a fun time living it.
If you care about looks, then work on your looks, because this will help your game and overall quality of life if it is important to you. And if you don't? Then honestly who really cares as long as your happy, just don't put down the people who do care, as this shows a sign of jealousy and it really makes your views look warped.
Beauty lies within the beholder, a 5 to one person can be a 10 to the next...just make sure your happy with what your doing. If your not, really sit down and think about what your not doing right...don't get hung up on what your doing wrong, but really sit down and think about what you need to start doing right to become happy.
And as for him just losing his virginity, good for him, at least he's making progress, theirs some age 30+ on this board that are still virgins and trying to give advice.
All i'm saying is, to some...this advice may be awesome, to others it might be garbage. People are different, what works for one person isn't always going to work for another. Deus just because you regret spending your first 20 something years focusing on looks, doesn't mean other people do, to some others thats what makes them happy. When you throw around comments like that, you offend a lot of different people.
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Does it make you more appreciative of what you have?mahon83050 said:
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
You're an idiot my friend. Just look how you yourself treat attractive people subconsciously and all of the studies done on it. So I guess these experts and psycologists are all idiots as well?
I got laid last month, but it was not my first time. Where the hell did that come from.
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Deux - so besides arguing on every looks thread made, have u actually used the tools on this site to gain some confidence and to hook up with some girls?? I mean, you cant just sit there and whine about how u lack confidence, you need to actually go out there and TRY, maybe get drunk to loosen up, because you sound really uptight and that just all snowballs and affects confidence with girls negatively.......just so you know
so how many thousands of cold approaches have you done to get this loser mindset?Deus ex Pianoforte said:Tricky question. Have I used the tools on this site to gain confidence? Yes. Did they work? No. Have I hooked up with any girls because of the tools? I have a girlfriend, but in the 2 years that I've been on this site I've had exactly one opportunity to hook up with a girl. And she was wasted. Far below average success, so I must be far below average-looking, right? Of course not; that's absurd. But that's exactly what guys like mahon are trying to preach.
Oh, I don't whine. I accept my lack of confidence as a major personal flaw. We all have them. My flaw just happens to be the number one quality women look for in a man. And every time I try I either get ignored and occassionally flat-out rejected. I must be REALLY ugly, right?
This is one of the main reasons this thread is illegal, btw. There's nothing to argue. The facts speak for themselves.
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How are you not banned? You make no points.mahon83050 said:
The National Sexual Awards Committee (NSAC) has mailed your medal in the mail. After a long deliberation they concluded you deserved it because you are good looking and you got laid last month - and it was the topper since it wasn't your first time!