"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Attractive looking people stick together?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
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Who is that by the way?ChrizZ said:
No, he looked worse than that.
I want to live and die happy, I want to be able to say with my last breath that I loved my life, and I had a fun time living it.
If you care about looks, then work on your looks, because this will help your game and overall quality of life if it is important to you. And if you don't? Then honestly who really cares as long as your happy, just don't put down the people who do care, as this shows a sign of jealousy and it really makes your views look warped.
Beauty lies within the beholder, a 5 to one person can be a 10 to the next...just make sure your happy with what your doing. If your not, really sit down and think about what your not doing right...don't get hung up on what your doing wrong, but really sit down and think about what you need to start doing right to become happy.
And as for him just losing his virginity, good for him, at least he's making progress, theirs some age 30+ on this board that are still virgins and trying to give advice.
All i'm saying is, to some...this advice may be awesome, to others it might be garbage. People are different, what works for one person isn't always going to work for another. Deus just because you regret spending your first 20 something years focusing on looks, doesn't mean other people do, to some others thats what makes them happy. When you throw around comments like that, you offend a lot of different people.
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Does it make you more appreciative of what you have?mahon83050 said:
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
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Deus ex Pianoforte said:
You're an idiot my friend. Just look how you yourself treat attractive people subconsciously and all of the studies done on it. So I guess these experts and psycologists are all idiots as well?
I got laid last month, but it was not my first time. Where the hell did that come from.
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Deux - so besides arguing on every looks thread made, have u actually used the tools on this site to gain some confidence and to hook up with some girls?? I mean, you cant just sit there and whine about how u lack confidence, you need to actually go out there and TRY, maybe get drunk to loosen up, because you sound really uptight and that just all snowballs and affects confidence with girls negatively.......just so you know
so how many thousands of cold approaches have you done to get this loser mindset?Deus ex Pianoforte said:Tricky question. Have I used the tools on this site to gain confidence? Yes. Did they work? No. Have I hooked up with any girls because of the tools? I have a girlfriend, but in the 2 years that I've been on this site I've had exactly one opportunity to hook up with a girl. And she was wasted. Far below average success, so I must be far below average-looking, right? Of course not; that's absurd. But that's exactly what guys like mahon are trying to preach.
Oh, I don't whine. I accept my lack of confidence as a major personal flaw. We all have them. My flaw just happens to be the number one quality women look for in a man. And every time I try I either get ignored and occassionally flat-out rejected. I must be REALLY ugly, right?
This is one of the main reasons this thread is illegal, btw. There's nothing to argue. The facts speak for themselves.
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How are you not banned? You make no points.mahon83050 said:
The National Sexual Awards Committee (NSAC) has mailed your medal in the mail. After a long deliberation they concluded you deserved it because you are good looking and you got laid last month - and it was the topper since it wasn't your first time!