I can go out a friday night and have all kind of good attention from other girls. It's like I'm the center of the world in the place I am, and everybody want's to talk to me. Another day I can dress the same and feel good, but no attention from anybody. Why is it so? Is it my inner game I have to work with, because I am good looking, but sometime I just don't feel confident? Does it have something to do with my confidence?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
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