I can go out a friday night and have all kind of good attention from other girls. It's like I'm the center of the world in the place I am, and everybody want's to talk to me. Another day I can dress the same and feel good, but no attention from anybody. Why is it so? Is it my inner game I have to work with, because I am good looking, but sometime I just don't feel confident? Does it have something to do with my confidence?
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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- Thread starter Desire
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Originally posted by Reagan
girls are always smiling at me when I go out in public after I've recently masturbated.
could that be because of that wet spot on your pants?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Hunterchilla
Don Juan
THE DAYS U DONT FEEL CONFIDENT YOUR PROBABLY GRIMACING OR GIVING OFF A NEGATIVE VIBE. THE DAYS YOU FEEL HAPPY AND CONFIDENT PEOPLE WANNA BE AROUND THAT. IT COMES OFF WETHER U LIKE IT OR NOT SO JUST BE CONIFEDENT
Hunterchilla is right.
Regan is more confident wearing a stripped shirt or after he has masturbated (and cleaned himself up).
Do something for you just to boost your confidence so you give out a good vibe. It doesn't have to make sense. You deserve it!
Regan is more confident wearing a stripped shirt or after he has masturbated (and cleaned himself up).
Do something for you just to boost your confidence so you give out a good vibe. It doesn't have to make sense. You deserve it!