I can go out a friday night and have all kind of good attention from other girls. It's like I'm the center of the world in the place I am, and everybody want's to talk to me. Another day I can dress the same and feel good, but no attention from anybody. Why is it so? Is it my inner game I have to work with, because I am good looking, but sometime I just don't feel confident? Does it have something to do with my confidence?
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Originally posted by Reagan
girls are always smiling at me when I go out in public after I've recently masturbated.
could that be because of that wet spot on your pants?
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Hunterchilla
Don Juan
THE DAYS U DONT FEEL CONFIDENT YOUR PROBABLY GRIMACING OR GIVING OFF A NEGATIVE VIBE. THE DAYS YOU FEEL HAPPY AND CONFIDENT PEOPLE WANNA BE AROUND THAT. IT COMES OFF WETHER U LIKE IT OR NOT SO JUST BE CONIFEDENT
Hunterchilla is right.
Regan is more confident wearing a stripped shirt or after he has masturbated (and cleaned himself up).
Do something for you just to boost your confidence so you give out a good vibe. It doesn't have to make sense. You deserve it!
Regan is more confident wearing a stripped shirt or after he has masturbated (and cleaned himself up).
Do something for you just to boost your confidence so you give out a good vibe. It doesn't have to make sense. You deserve it!