"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Attraction is easy, and not enough

CuddleJunkie

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My DonJuan brothers, I write this after a partying night, great fun, 3 girls had some level of attraction towards me. This is is a normal situation for me right now. I'm just a guy on my path that goes out to relax with friends and have fun after working hard on my goals. You could say I play hard, but I work harder. And girls notice. So everytime I go out I get girls attracted and trying to build rapport or comfort with me. The problem is, I'm not that interested in them as to have deep conversations with. I've hit a plateau, I need some help and advice from you to multiply my lyes.
Since I'm on the DonJuan path I've only bang artsy girls and girls so below my league that they would just jump on me. This, obviously, is not what I want. Artsy girls I like since most of you know I studied philosophy, so rapport is easy as **** to build. My problem is,with normal girls I don't have a common ground so vast as to build this comfort necessary to bang them. They keep on initiating conversation and kino, and I'm just like 'meh', not escalating them back. I might be rambling a bit, but I'm a little drunk lol. Anyhow, I'm asking you guys how can I become interested in this normal girls without intelectual or artistic interest. I surely want more sexual abundance, but I just can't get interested in them. Thank you, as always.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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My DonJuan brothers, I write this after a partying night, great fun, 3 girls had some level of attraction towards me. This is is a normal situation for me right now. I'm just a guy on my path that goes out to relax with friends and have fun after working hard on my goals. You could say I play hard, but I work harder. And girls notice. So everytime I go out I get girls attracted and trying to build rapport or comfort with me. The problem is, I'm not that interested in them as to have deep conversations with. I've hit a plateau, I need some help and advice from you to multiply my lyes.
Since I'm on the DonJuan path I've only bang artsy girls and girls so below my league that they would just jump on me. This, obviously, is not what I want. Artsy girls I like since most of you know I studied philosophy, so rapport is easy as **** to build. My problem is,with normal girls I don't have a common ground so vast as to build this comfort necessary to bang them. They keep on initiating conversation and kino, and I'm just like 'meh', not escalating them back. I might be rambling a bit, but I'm a little drunk lol. Anyhow, I'm asking you guys how can I become interested in this normal girls without intelectual or artistic interest. I surely want more sexual abundance, but I just can't get interested in them. Thank you, as always.
If all you want to do is fvck them then why does anything other than how they look matter? Everything else is simply window dressing to get to what you want.
 

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I have one thing working for me that allows me to have extensive conversations with pretty much anyone, infinite curiosity. I don't only go into "safe" conversations where I know the topics. I go into conversations with people who know a lot about things I know little or nothing about, I ask and reflect back trying to learn and understand.

I take interest in what I don't know, isn't philosophy really about everything anyways?
 

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Make fun of them (not in a really horrible way).

If she is talking about something inane (such as reality shows), turn it into having a laugh.

I've always found humour in stuff that is a bit sh1t. I find that works wonders.
As in teasing her about talking about boring topics? I can see that working, but creating attraction instead of rapport.
 
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