"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Attraction is easy, and not enough

CuddleJunkie

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My DonJuan brothers, I write this after a partying night, great fun, 3 girls had some level of attraction towards me. This is is a normal situation for me right now. I'm just a guy on my path that goes out to relax with friends and have fun after working hard on my goals. You could say I play hard, but I work harder. And girls notice. So everytime I go out I get girls attracted and trying to build rapport or comfort with me. The problem is, I'm not that interested in them as to have deep conversations with. I've hit a plateau, I need some help and advice from you to multiply my lyes.
Since I'm on the DonJuan path I've only bang artsy girls and girls so below my league that they would just jump on me. This, obviously, is not what I want. Artsy girls I like since most of you know I studied philosophy, so rapport is easy as **** to build. My problem is,with normal girls I don't have a common ground so vast as to build this comfort necessary to bang them. They keep on initiating conversation and kino, and I'm just like 'meh', not escalating them back. I might be rambling a bit, but I'm a little drunk lol. Anyhow, I'm asking you guys how can I become interested in this normal girls without intelectual or artistic interest. I surely want more sexual abundance, but I just can't get interested in them. Thank you, as always.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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marmel75

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My DonJuan brothers, I write this after a partying night, great fun, 3 girls had some level of attraction towards me. This is is a normal situation for me right now. I'm just a guy on my path that goes out to relax with friends and have fun after working hard on my goals. You could say I play hard, but I work harder. And girls notice. So everytime I go out I get girls attracted and trying to build rapport or comfort with me. The problem is, I'm not that interested in them as to have deep conversations with. I've hit a plateau, I need some help and advice from you to multiply my lyes.
Since I'm on the DonJuan path I've only bang artsy girls and girls so below my league that they would just jump on me. This, obviously, is not what I want. Artsy girls I like since most of you know I studied philosophy, so rapport is easy as **** to build. My problem is,with normal girls I don't have a common ground so vast as to build this comfort necessary to bang them. They keep on initiating conversation and kino, and I'm just like 'meh', not escalating them back. I might be rambling a bit, but I'm a little drunk lol. Anyhow, I'm asking you guys how can I become interested in this normal girls without intelectual or artistic interest. I surely want more sexual abundance, but I just can't get interested in them. Thank you, as always.
If all you want to do is fvck them then why does anything other than how they look matter? Everything else is simply window dressing to get to what you want.
 

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I have one thing working for me that allows me to have extensive conversations with pretty much anyone, infinite curiosity. I don't only go into "safe" conversations where I know the topics. I go into conversations with people who know a lot about things I know little or nothing about, I ask and reflect back trying to learn and understand.

I take interest in what I don't know, isn't philosophy really about everything anyways?
 

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Make fun of them (not in a really horrible way).

If she is talking about something inane (such as reality shows), turn it into having a laugh.

I've always found humour in stuff that is a bit sh1t. I find that works wonders.
As in teasing her about talking about boring topics? I can see that working, but creating attraction instead of rapport.
 
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