"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Attraction/IOIs [RP]

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I'm in the Mood

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I have two questions for the mature DJ:

What is at the true root of attraction?
Somebody you can relate to? Someone who can make you feel good?

How does a man who isn't physically attractive create sexual attraction?
I'd appreciate specifics that your average guy could use successfully.


Secondly, what exactly are IOIs?
I'm asking this because things can be interpreted very differently and a girl could just be over-friendly to you, but not be attracted.

How do you when a girl is giving you a TRUE IOI?
Meaning that theres a possiblility of genuine interest.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Attraction = making you feel good.

In other words, we are attracted to things that make us (or have the potential to make us) feel good.

Now, the problem is that since everyone is unique, it takes different things to make "people feel good."

It may occur from the knowledge of dating an alpha male, it may be from being told your beautiful everyday - it just depends on the woman.


Good Luck!
 
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Should I look for happy facial expressions? (laugh, smile etc.)
Or is there something inside that you have no way of figuring out?
 
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