Attraction/IOIs [RP]

[I'm in the Mood]

I have two questions for the mature DJ:

What is at the true root of attraction?
Somebody you can relate to? Someone who can make you feel good?

How does a man who isn't physically attractive create sexual attraction?
I'd appreciate specifics that your average guy could use successfully.


Secondly, what exactly are IOIs?
I'm asking this because things can be interpreted very differently and a girl could just be over-friendly to you, but not be attracted.

How do you when a girl is giving you a TRUE IOI?
Meaning that theres a possiblility of genuine interest.

 

[Relationship-Buddy]

Attraction = making you feel good.

In other words, we are attracted to things that make us (or have the potential to make us) feel good.

Now, the problem is that since everyone is unique, it takes different things to make "people feel good."

It may occur from the knowledge of dating an alpha male, it may be from being told your beautiful everyday - it just depends on the woman.


Good Luck!

 

[I'm in the Mood]

Should I look for happy facial expressions? (laugh, smile etc.)
Or is there something inside that you have no way of figuring out?