Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Attraction/IOIs [RP]

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I'm in the Mood

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I have two questions for the mature DJ:

What is at the true root of attraction?
Somebody you can relate to? Someone who can make you feel good?

How does a man who isn't physically attractive create sexual attraction?
I'd appreciate specifics that your average guy could use successfully.


Secondly, what exactly are IOIs?
I'm asking this because things can be interpreted very differently and a girl could just be over-friendly to you, but not be attracted.

How do you when a girl is giving you a TRUE IOI?
Meaning that theres a possiblility of genuine interest.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Relationship-Buddy

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Attraction = making you feel good.

In other words, we are attracted to things that make us (or have the potential to make us) feel good.

Now, the problem is that since everyone is unique, it takes different things to make "people feel good."

It may occur from the knowledge of dating an alpha male, it may be from being told your beautiful everyday - it just depends on the woman.


Good Luck!
 
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Should I look for happy facial expressions? (laugh, smile etc.)
Or is there something inside that you have no way of figuring out?
 
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