"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Attraction/IOIs [RP]

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I'm in the Mood

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I have two questions for the mature DJ:

What is at the true root of attraction?
Somebody you can relate to? Someone who can make you feel good?

How does a man who isn't physically attractive create sexual attraction?
I'd appreciate specifics that your average guy could use successfully.


Secondly, what exactly are IOIs?
I'm asking this because things can be interpreted very differently and a girl could just be over-friendly to you, but not be attracted.

How do you when a girl is giving you a TRUE IOI?
Meaning that theres a possiblility of genuine interest.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Relationship-Buddy

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Attraction = making you feel good.

In other words, we are attracted to things that make us (or have the potential to make us) feel good.

Now, the problem is that since everyone is unique, it takes different things to make "people feel good."

It may occur from the knowledge of dating an alpha male, it may be from being told your beautiful everyday - it just depends on the woman.


Good Luck!
 
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Should I look for happy facial expressions? (laugh, smile etc.)
Or is there something inside that you have no way of figuring out?
 
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