"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Attraction does't Equal Appealing?

612_Da_Playa

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Is that true. Just because a girl in attracted do you doesn't mean she will go out with you or is that a conundrum? If a girl is attracted to a tough guy does that mean theoretically she will go out with him? Basically I'm trying to say once you have them "attracted" is it a wrap?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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You can't control attraction, but you can control who you date/****/kiss.. blah blah.

I'm sure there are some girls attracted to some guys, but are afraid of what other people think because they aren't as "popular" as the other guys. They may have the looks, confidence, personality... just lacking in the popularity department.. and it just might be enough for a girl to tell you know.

I think I'm an example of this. There are some girls attracted to me, but are too afraid to step out of the box and take a chance with a guy like me. Instead they just flock around the football players and what no, oh well, their loss.
 

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She will want you, but will probably wait for you to make the move, leaving hints along the way. If you fail that portion of the game, she will probably lose her attraction in you and/or cry herself to sleep every night. Depending on the person.
 
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