"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Attraction does't Equal Appealing?

612_Da_Playa

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Is that true. Just because a girl in attracted do you doesn't mean she will go out with you or is that a conundrum? If a girl is attracted to a tough guy does that mean theoretically she will go out with him? Basically I'm trying to say once you have them "attracted" is it a wrap?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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You can't control attraction, but you can control who you date/****/kiss.. blah blah.

I'm sure there are some girls attracted to some guys, but are afraid of what other people think because they aren't as "popular" as the other guys. They may have the looks, confidence, personality... just lacking in the popularity department.. and it just might be enough for a girl to tell you know.

I think I'm an example of this. There are some girls attracted to me, but are too afraid to step out of the box and take a chance with a guy like me. Instead they just flock around the football players and what no, oh well, their loss.
 

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She will want you, but will probably wait for you to make the move, leaving hints along the way. If you fail that portion of the game, she will probably lose her attraction in you and/or cry herself to sleep every night. Depending on the person.
 
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