"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Attraction does't Equal Appealing?

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612_Da_Playa

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Is that true. Just because a girl in attracted do you doesn't mean she will go out with you or is that a conundrum? If a girl is attracted to a tough guy does that mean theoretically she will go out with him? Basically I'm trying to say once you have them "attracted" is it a wrap?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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You can't control attraction, but you can control who you date/****/kiss.. blah blah.

I'm sure there are some girls attracted to some guys, but are afraid of what other people think because they aren't as "popular" as the other guys. They may have the looks, confidence, personality... just lacking in the popularity department.. and it just might be enough for a girl to tell you know.

I think I'm an example of this. There are some girls attracted to me, but are too afraid to step out of the box and take a chance with a guy like me. Instead they just flock around the football players and what no, oh well, their loss.
 
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She will want you, but will probably wait for you to make the move, leaving hints along the way. If you fail that portion of the game, she will probably lose her attraction in you and/or cry herself to sleep every night. Depending on the person.
 
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