"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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ATTN: Derek Flint -Planning on taking a MM workshop.

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Marlimus

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Anybody who has taken a MM workshop, PM me.

I'm planning on taking a MM bootcamp/workshop in summer of 2007. In the meantime, I'm gonna get his CD/DVD collection, and save, cuz I'm a student so I don't make much, and these programs and materials are expensive- peacock clothes+your own food +club admission prices
and I think you have to pay for your stay at the hotel too...

Anyway, I want to know if anyone plans on doing one in the near future, and if you actually have done one, if you could drop me a line regarding hidden costs, things to carry, how to prepare, stuff like that.

P.S My field reports are on hold due to taking a second job + midterms, but I should have another 2 out by the end of this week.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Joe The Homophobe

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why would you get his dvd collection if you're going to the workshop? isn't the dvd's collection like 500 bucks? you might as well save that for the workshop which is 600 bucks if not mistaken.
 
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because I don't want to go to the workshop not knowing anything, while other guys are now memorizing routines and practicing negs I want to be closing sets.
 
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I am a member of Mystery's Lounge. Although I have never gone to a MM workshop, I know more MM than most who HAVE gone to a workshop.....For the workshop you DONT need to know ANYTHING..........a lot go guys are complete newbies that go there....there are many threads in the Lounge that talk about his bootcamps, and guys get to know eachother and they have sarging reunions.

I would read up on MM and the 9 steps of the M3 model.....any questions PM me

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"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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"His workshops are $1,500 I believe.."

---Nope, try $2,250.
 
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Originally posted by NorPacWolf
"His workshops are $1,500 I believe.."

---Nope, try $2,250.
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$2,250 to teach you something you already know how to do...

Man... people are right about this guy... he is a genius. :)

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how did you get to be a member of Mystery's Lounge?
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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