"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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ATTN: Derek Flint -Planning on taking a MM workshop.

Marlimus

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Anybody who has taken a MM workshop, PM me.

I'm planning on taking a MM bootcamp/workshop in summer of 2007. In the meantime, I'm gonna get his CD/DVD collection, and save, cuz I'm a student so I don't make much, and these programs and materials are expensive- peacock clothes+your own food +club admission prices
and I think you have to pay for your stay at the hotel too...

Anyway, I want to know if anyone plans on doing one in the near future, and if you actually have done one, if you could drop me a line regarding hidden costs, things to carry, how to prepare, stuff like that.

P.S My field reports are on hold due to taking a second job + midterms, but I should have another 2 out by the end of this week.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Joe The Homophobe

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why would you get his dvd collection if you're going to the workshop? isn't the dvd's collection like 500 bucks? you might as well save that for the workshop which is 600 bucks if not mistaken.
 

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because I don't want to go to the workshop not knowing anything, while other guys are now memorizing routines and practicing negs I want to be closing sets.
 

Smooth Player 056

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I am a member of Mystery's Lounge. Although I have never gone to a MM workshop, I know more MM than most who HAVE gone to a workshop.....For the workshop you DONT need to know ANYTHING..........a lot go guys are complete newbies that go there....there are many threads in the Lounge that talk about his bootcamps, and guys get to know eachother and they have sarging reunions.

I would read up on MM and the 9 steps of the M3 model.....any questions PM me

Smooth Player 056
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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NorPacWolf

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"His workshops are $1,500 I believe.."

---Nope, try $2,250.
 

The Antichrist_Star

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Originally posted by NorPacWolf
"His workshops are $1,500 I believe.."

---Nope, try $2,250.
$2,250 to teach you something you already know how to do...

Man... people are right about this guy... he is a genius. :)

AS
 

Marlimus

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how did you get to be a member of Mystery's Lounge?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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