"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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ATTN: Derek Flint -Planning on taking a MM workshop.

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Marlimus

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Anybody who has taken a MM workshop, PM me.

I'm planning on taking a MM bootcamp/workshop in summer of 2007. In the meantime, I'm gonna get his CD/DVD collection, and save, cuz I'm a student so I don't make much, and these programs and materials are expensive- peacock clothes+your own food +club admission prices
and I think you have to pay for your stay at the hotel too...

Anyway, I want to know if anyone plans on doing one in the near future, and if you actually have done one, if you could drop me a line regarding hidden costs, things to carry, how to prepare, stuff like that.

P.S My field reports are on hold due to taking a second job + midterms, but I should have another 2 out by the end of this week.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Joe The Homophobe

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why would you get his dvd collection if you're going to the workshop? isn't the dvd's collection like 500 bucks? you might as well save that for the workshop which is 600 bucks if not mistaken.
 
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because I don't want to go to the workshop not knowing anything, while other guys are now memorizing routines and practicing negs I want to be closing sets.
 
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I am a member of Mystery's Lounge. Although I have never gone to a MM workshop, I know more MM than most who HAVE gone to a workshop.....For the workshop you DONT need to know ANYTHING..........a lot go guys are complete newbies that go there....there are many threads in the Lounge that talk about his bootcamps, and guys get to know eachother and they have sarging reunions.

I would read up on MM and the 9 steps of the M3 model.....any questions PM me

Smooth Player 056
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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"His workshops are $1,500 I believe.."

---Nope, try $2,250.
 
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Originally posted by NorPacWolf
"His workshops are $1,500 I believe.."

---Nope, try $2,250.
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$2,250 to teach you something you already know how to do...

Man... people are right about this guy... he is a genius. :)

AS
 
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how did you get to be a member of Mystery's Lounge?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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