"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There is this girl that I work with that flirts with me all the time. By flirting, I mean she slaps me on the *ss and touches me a lot. She's extremely forward. A few days ago she gave me her number without me asking or anything, but I don't know if I'm going to call her or not. She's an attractive girl, but she's just off limits. She's got a boyfriend, and she's underage—only 17.

The reason I ask whether she's an attention ***** or not is because some days she's all over me, yet other days she acts like I'm not even there. Plus, she knows that I'm a quiet guy with absolutely no experience. Do you think she's just playing with me?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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knglerxt said:
Plus, she knows that I'm a quiet guy with absolutely no experience. Do you think she's just playing with me?
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I think only you know that, and you come of better than you give yourself credit.

Yes she's playing with you, so here's your chance to slap her ass and pinch her ... :nono: haha

Joke around with her, you have yourself, practice your moves on her, see how she reacts, since you don't want anything from her you have nothing to lose.
 
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She's obviously playing with you but that doesn't mean she doesn't like you, I used to have a few girls that did the same type of things to me. I don't know this girl you're with but I'll tell you what I did, I'd slap her ass back, I'd walk up behind her and pinch her ass the same way she'd done to me before, and guess what happened when i did that... she'd love it.

Now the girl I'm talking about DIDN'T have a boyfriend BUT the buying signs are the exact same... I'd go for it, the worst that will happen is you will lose someone who was being insencere in the first place, the best thing that can happen would be... use your imagination ;)
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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