"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Attention *****?

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There is this girl that I work with that flirts with me all the time. By flirting, I mean she slaps me on the *ss and touches me a lot. She's extremely forward. A few days ago she gave me her number without me asking or anything, but I don't know if I'm going to call her or not. She's an attractive girl, but she's just off limits. She's got a boyfriend, and she's underage—only 17.

The reason I ask whether she's an attention ***** or not is because some days she's all over me, yet other days she acts like I'm not even there. Plus, she knows that I'm a quiet guy with absolutely no experience. Do you think she's just playing with me?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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knglerxt said:
Plus, she knows that I'm a quiet guy with absolutely no experience. Do you think she's just playing with me?
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I think only you know that, and you come of better than you give yourself credit.

Yes she's playing with you, so here's your chance to slap her ass and pinch her ... :nono: haha

Joke around with her, you have yourself, practice your moves on her, see how she reacts, since you don't want anything from her you have nothing to lose.
 
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She's obviously playing with you but that doesn't mean she doesn't like you, I used to have a few girls that did the same type of things to me. I don't know this girl you're with but I'll tell you what I did, I'd slap her ass back, I'd walk up behind her and pinch her ass the same way she'd done to me before, and guess what happened when i did that... she'd love it.

Now the girl I'm talking about DIDN'T have a boyfriend BUT the buying signs are the exact same... I'd go for it, the worst that will happen is you will lose someone who was being insencere in the first place, the best thing that can happen would be... use your imagination ;)
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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