how do you have connections if no one talks to you?Originally posted by david90
It seems to me that people only care about my connections. People don't talk to me unless they see that i'm talking to somebody popular or an hb. In other words social proof.
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
attention from girls
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Re: Re: attention from girls
I do know a couple of people with lots of social proofs but I'm just semi-close to them. When people see me talk to them, they want to talk to me to talk to them , and i guess to up there social standing. I feel like a fat chick with hot friends
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introduce yourself! meet them! don't sit around!
Re: Re: Re: attention from girls
whining doesnt fix it
up your social standing if you think it will solve your problems.... you're smart, you can think of ways to do that
oh shut upOriginally posted by david90
I do know a couple of people with lots of social proofs but I'm just semi-close to them. When people see me talk to them, they want to talk to me to talk to them , and i guess to up there social standing. I feel like a fat chick with hot friends
whining doesnt fix it
up your social standing if you think it will solve your problems.... you're smart, you can think of ways to do that
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.