how do you have connections if no one talks to you?Originally posted by david90
It seems to me that people only care about my connections. People don't talk to me unless they see that i'm talking to somebody popular or an hb. In other words social proof.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
attention from girls
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Re: Re: attention from girls
I do know a couple of people with lots of social proofs but I'm just semi-close to them. When people see me talk to them, they want to talk to me to talk to them , and i guess to up there social standing. I feel like a fat chick with hot friends
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introduce yourself! meet them! don't sit around!
Re: Re: Re: attention from girls
whining doesnt fix it
up your social standing if you think it will solve your problems.... you're smart, you can think of ways to do that
oh shut upOriginally posted by david90
I do know a couple of people with lots of social proofs but I'm just semi-close to them. When people see me talk to them, they want to talk to me to talk to them , and i guess to up there social standing. I feel like a fat chick with hot friends
whining doesnt fix it
up your social standing if you think it will solve your problems.... you're smart, you can think of ways to do that
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.