I met this cool chick who I was tryna pick up but I was too nice so tho I'm annoyed I'm happy to friendzone her cos I can tell she has hot friends from the stuff we talked about. She was a former cheerleader etc similar friends, I got her number but I'm wary that the way she gave it and the way she reacted when I suggest we get together either means she has a bf or is just not interested. I doubt she'd pick up if I call , so if I have to text her how should I frame it so that I'm just looking to hang out as friends without actually saying it? I'll pick up other girls, social proof isn't going to hurt me ultimately.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
attempting to friendzone a girl, how? after failed pick up
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
im CONFUSED why you posted this... a pointless post indeed
come back when you've grown some balls, and can acutally write legible sentances...
come back when you've grown some balls, and can acutally write legible sentances...
moneyisking
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haha is this what they meant when the master djs said this forum is not what it used to be? Stop being nice, and read all dj bible. only advice we give..
zekko
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I know they teach you not to be nice here, but I've read something like this on here numerous times. I always wonder how they guy knows that it was being "nice" that did him in when the girl doesn't show the interest he was hoping for. Maybe the guy just doesn't have enough value built up to get the girl? Or maybe the chemistry just wasn't there.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.