I met this cool chick who I was tryna pick up but I was too nice so tho I'm annoyed I'm happy to friendzone her cos I can tell she has hot friends from the stuff we talked about. She was a former cheerleader etc similar friends, I got her number but I'm wary that the way she gave it and the way she reacted when I suggest we get together either means she has a bf or is just not interested. I doubt she'd pick up if I call , so if I have to text her how should I frame it so that I'm just looking to hang out as friends without actually saying it? I'll pick up other girls, social proof isn't going to hurt me ultimately.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
attempting to friendzone a girl, how? after failed pick up
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
im CONFUSED why you posted this... a pointless post indeed
come back when you've grown some balls, and can acutally write legible sentances...
come back when you've grown some balls, and can acutally write legible sentances...
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haha is this what they meant when the master djs said this forum is not what it used to be? Stop being nice, and read all dj bible. only advice we give..
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I know they teach you not to be nice here, but I've read something like this on here numerous times. I always wonder how they guy knows that it was being "nice" that did him in when the girl doesn't show the interest he was hoping for. Maybe the guy just doesn't have enough value built up to get the girl? Or maybe the chemistry just wasn't there.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.