I met this cool chick who I was tryna pick up but I was too nice so tho I'm annoyed I'm happy to friendzone her cos I can tell she has hot friends from the stuff we talked about. She was a former cheerleader etc similar friends, I got her number but I'm wary that the way she gave it and the way she reacted when I suggest we get together either means she has a bf or is just not interested. I doubt she'd pick up if I call , so if I have to text her how should I frame it so that I'm just looking to hang out as friends without actually saying it? I'll pick up other girls, social proof isn't going to hurt me ultimately.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
attempting to friendzone a girl, how? after failed pick up
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
kingsam
Master Don Juan
im CONFUSED why you posted this... a pointless post indeed
come back when you've grown some balls, and can acutally write legible sentances...
come back when you've grown some balls, and can acutally write legible sentances...
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haha is this what they meant when the master djs said this forum is not what it used to be? Stop being nice, and read all dj bible. only advice we give..
zekko
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I know they teach you not to be nice here, but I've read something like this on here numerous times. I always wonder how they guy knows that it was being "nice" that did him in when the girl doesn't show the interest he was hoping for. Maybe the guy just doesn't have enough value built up to get the girl? Or maybe the chemistry just wasn't there.
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