athletic girl wants control

[strey]

met at a bar. went home with her. she says she loves having control and hates guys telling her what to do and trying to dominate her. i thought girls didnt think this way?! she is cool and fun personality, but how should i handle her and this situation? any suggestions are welcome. thanks

 

[Gangster Of Love]

Are you a submissive, less masculine type of guy? Nothing wrong with that. If not, she might have a little too much "masculine" energy for you. Try to find out what kind of guys she's into, and you'll probably see that most are of the less masculine types.

She's a physical, athletic type of chick with probably a lot of a tomboyish attitude. Are you a "pretty boy", or metro type of guy? If not, I suggest you run, don't walk.

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

met at a bar. went home with her. she says she loves having control and hates guys telling her what to do and trying to dominate her. i thought girls didnt think this way?! she is cool and fun personality, but how should i handle her and this situation? any suggestions are welcome. thanks

Believe it or not, most women don't like being told what to do. Guys tend to mistake being in control of themselves with being controlling, this is very apparent when dealing with women who are in pretty good control of some aspect of their own lives.

Be confident, make plans and act upon them. Don't be wishy-washy and respect this woman to be capable of making her own decisions.

 

[DavenJuan]

Believe it or not, most women don't like being told what to do. Guys tend to mistake being in control of themselves with being controlling, this is very apparent when dealing with women who are in pretty good control of some aspect of their own lives.

Be confident, make plans and act upon them. Don't be wishy-washy and respect this woman to be capable of making her own decisions.

exactly.. there is a HUGE difference between having control over YOU, versus being controlling.

she doesnt like to be controlled but believe me, she will have MUCH RESPECT for you if you stand for what you believe in and KNOW what you want.

if you want to do somnething make plans to do it.

NOW...

if she is saying that she like to make all the plans, and EVERYTHING is her way or the highway with no compromise. then you need to move on.

this type of girl is not what you probably want anyway.

 

[The Deacon]

It depends on what you want. If you're cool with letting her take the lead in the relationship and you're attracted to her, well, sure why not. It's nice sometimes to be with chicks who lead the relationship cause doin' all of that leadin stuff takes a lot of time and energy. If you're not attracted to her, though, I say run for the hills.

You know, she could just be one of those chicks putting up a tough front, but on the inside she's really saying "spank me, I'm a bad girl." Just a thought.