"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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At work, do you flirt with women infront of other people?

verysuave

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Do you show your "ATTRACTION/INTEREST" in other women at the workplace while other people can see you?

I kinda don't like showing that when theres alot of other people around. Anyone? tnx
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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SayWord?

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I think it depends on your work emvironment.
Anyway, I do it cause I don't give a damn
 

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It depends. I work as a waiter and as much as id like to flirt with hot female customers, I try to keep my composure. I just smile alot and make deep eye contact when they order at best. But with female co-workers, I think im obvious as fcuk because co-workers tell me hahaha.
 

SayWord?

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verysuave said:
where do you work?
I work at sears in receiving. I also do promotions in chicago. I do the flirting in sears. I don't really have time to do the flirting thing during promos; too busy and I'm trying not to embarras the person who put me on with the job.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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SayWord? said:
I think it depends on your work emvironment.
Anyway, I do it cause I don't give a damn
Same here, why would you give a damn anyway?
 

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I guess this can't be done in all jobs, I don't have to respond to any clients directly since that's not the type of job that I have, but I rarely ever drop my pen in the company's ink anyway. There's anything wrong with innocent flirting methinks. I've only had like 1 gf from this job, plenty of more girls out there.
 
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