"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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At work, do you flirt with women infront of other people?

verysuave

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Do you show your "ATTRACTION/INTEREST" in other women at the workplace while other people can see you?

I kinda don't like showing that when theres alot of other people around. Anyone? tnx
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I think it depends on your work emvironment.
Anyway, I do it cause I don't give a damn
 

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It depends. I work as a waiter and as much as id like to flirt with hot female customers, I try to keep my composure. I just smile alot and make deep eye contact when they order at best. But with female co-workers, I think im obvious as fcuk because co-workers tell me hahaha.
 

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verysuave said:
where do you work?
I work at sears in receiving. I also do promotions in chicago. I do the flirting in sears. I don't really have time to do the flirting thing during promos; too busy and I'm trying not to embarras the person who put me on with the job.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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SayWord? said:
I think it depends on your work emvironment.
Anyway, I do it cause I don't give a damn
Same here, why would you give a damn anyway?
 

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I guess this can't be done in all jobs, I don't have to respond to any clients directly since that's not the type of job that I have, but I rarely ever drop my pen in the company's ink anyway. There's anything wrong with innocent flirting methinks. I've only had like 1 gf from this job, plenty of more girls out there.
 
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