"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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At work, do you flirt with women infront of other people?

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Do you show your "ATTRACTION/INTEREST" in other women at the workplace while other people can see you?

I kinda don't like showing that when theres alot of other people around. Anyone? tnx
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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SayWord?

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I think it depends on your work emvironment.
Anyway, I do it cause I don't give a damn
 

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It depends. I work as a waiter and as much as id like to flirt with hot female customers, I try to keep my composure. I just smile alot and make deep eye contact when they order at best. But with female co-workers, I think im obvious as fcuk because co-workers tell me hahaha.
 

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verysuave said:
where do you work?
I work at sears in receiving. I also do promotions in chicago. I do the flirting in sears. I don't really have time to do the flirting thing during promos; too busy and I'm trying not to embarras the person who put me on with the job.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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SayWord? said:
I think it depends on your work emvironment.
Anyway, I do it cause I don't give a damn
Same here, why would you give a damn anyway?
 

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I guess this can't be done in all jobs, I don't have to respond to any clients directly since that's not the type of job that I have, but I rarely ever drop my pen in the company's ink anyway. There's anything wrong with innocent flirting methinks. I've only had like 1 gf from this job, plenty of more girls out there.
 
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